House TablePrivate dining 01

Together with their families

September 14, 2026The Annex, New York

Take your place

A note between us

Stay for one more.

We wanted the whole weekend to feel like the best part of dinner: everyone close, every glass filled, and nowhere else to be.

Long lacquer dining table after dinner
At the table / 01
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So we found one long table and built the evening around it. Come hungry, sit wherever the conversation takes you, and stay until the room belongs only to us.

The night is better with you in it.
Close overhead view of linen and glassware
After hours / 02

The evening

From the first glass to the last song, everything happens close.

  1. 01

    A short ceremony

    The Front Room

    Join us upstairs for a few words before the doors to dinner open.

  2. 02

    The first glass

    The Bar

    Cold martinis, bright things on toast, and time to find everyone you came to see.

  3. 03

    Dinner

    The Long Table

    Several generous plates, good bottles, and no expectation that anyone keeps a toast brief.

  4. 04

    After dinner

    The Blue Room

    The chairs move back, the music gets louder, and the last drink becomes the next one.

The desk · The Annex, New York

Arrive easy. Stay late.

  1. A

    Venue

    The Annex

    A private room above the city, with the ceremony, dinner, and dancing all under one roof.

    Entrance on Mercer StreetOpen ↗
  2. B

    Stay

    Mercer House

    Our nearest room block, close enough for an unhurried walk before dinner.

    4 minutes awayOpen ↗
  3. C

    Stay

    Canal House

    A quieter option with breakfast downstairs and late checkout on Sunday.

    9 minutes awayOpen ↗
  4. D

    Travel

    Night cars

    Cars will be waiting from 11:00 onward for anyone ready to call it a night.

    Pickup at the west door

Your place / RSVP

Your place is waiting.

Send your reply so we can prepare every seat, plate, and welcome with care.

Will you join us?
Food, stay, access

Entirely optional

With compliments

Your company is the gift. These are here only for those who asked.

  1. 01

    A table of our own

    The plates, glasses, and useful pieces we hope to gather everyone around for years.

    View list ↗
  2. 02

    The long way home

    A slow trip after the wedding, organized around places we have always wanted to eat.

    Contribute ↗
  3. 03

    City Harvest

    A contribution in celebration of the people who make sure New Yorkers are fed.

    Contribute ↗

One last word

Before we sit

What should I wear?+

Cocktail attire with personality. The room is intimate, the evening runs late, and dancing is very much part of the plan.

Can I bring a guest?+

Every person included in your party is named on the invitation. Send us a note if anything looks wrong.

Is everything in one place?+

Yes. The ceremony, dinner, and dancing all happen inside The Annex, with an elevator between floors.

How late will the night run?+

Dinner turns into dancing around 10:00. Cars begin at 11:00, but the room is ours well past midnight.

When should I reply?+

Please reply by August 1 so we can prepare every seat, meal, and welcome with care.