VendangeGolden Rows

Together with their families

September 14, 2026Alder Estate, Sonoma

Between the rows

Follow the path

In season

Meet us where the rows open.

We wanted a weekend with room to breathe: long views, close tables, and the people we love moving through it all together.

Vineyard rows leading toward Alder Estate
In the north field

Alder Estate gave us that rhythm. We will begin outside in the late light, follow the path toward dinner, and end below the vines when the cellar belongs only to us.

Come for the view. Stay until the last door closes.
Close view along a late-harvest vine row
Late harvest

The weekend

Every gathering follows the light, from the first row to the cellar below.

  1. 01

    Welcome in the rows

    North Field

    A first glass and time to walk the estate before the ceremony begins.

  2. 02

    The ceremony

    Olive Terrace

    Please follow the stone path from the field. Everything is an easy walk.

  3. 03

    Dinner at harvest light

    The Long Court

    Dinner moves from aperitif into shared plates as the light leaves the rows.

  4. 04

    Below the vines

    The Cellar

    Music, dessert, and a late bar in the cool stone rooms downstairs.

Alder Estate, Sonoma

The estate

Venue

Alder Estate

Ceremony, dinner, and dancing all take place on the estate. The last road is narrow, so please use the provided cars.

Cars begin from the hotel at 3:45Open directions ↗

  1. Stay

    The Madrona

    Our primary room block, with breakfast and estate cars included.

    18 minutes from the estateOpen ↗

  2. Stay

    Harmon House

    A smaller inn in town for guests who prefer to stay close to Sunday brunch.

    22 minutes from the estateOpen ↗

  3. Travel

    Estate cars

    Return cars leave the cellar court every thirty minutes from 10:30 onward.

    No reservation needed

The estate changes by the hour. These are the moments we hope you stay to see.

Golden Rows vineyard rows at Alder Estate
01Where the rows open
Golden vineyard path leading to a limestone estate
02Late harvest
Wet green vines beneath a silver sky
03After the weather
Mineral vineyard path after rain
04The north field
Plum vineyard rows descending toward a lit stone cellar
05Blue hour
Warm cellar doorway beyond dark vineyard rows
06Below the vines

The cellar door / RSVP

Will you join us?

Reply for Olivia and James. Your response and hospitality details go directly to the couple.

September 14, 2026Alder Estate, Sonoma
Will you join us?
Food, stay, access

With thanks

Your presence is the gift. These are here only for those who asked.

  1. 01

    A table for home

    Useful pieces we hope to gather friends around for a very long time.

    View list ↗
  2. 02

    The long way back

    A quiet trip after the wedding, planned around trains, small hotels, and good lunches.

    Contribute ↗
  3. 03

    Sonoma County Resilience Fund

    Support for the workers and communities who care for this landscape year-round.

    Contribute ↗

Before the weekend

A few practical notes before you make your way to the estate.

What should I wear?+

Cocktail attire suited to uneven stone paths and a cool cellar after sunset. A light layer is useful.

Can I drive to the estate?+

Please use the provided cars. The final estate road is narrow and parking is limited to vendors.

Is the celebration outdoors?+

The ceremony and dinner begin outside. Dancing and the late bar move into the cellar after dark.

Can I bring a guest?+

Every person included in your party is named on the invitation. Send us a note if anything looks wrong.

When should I reply?+

Please reply by August 1 so we can prepare transportation, meals, and every place at the table.